I just want to say that sometimes I think you can just be irritated and then let it go. Working at church it always seems as if anytime anyone says anything remotely that irritates one another it is a chance to learn, or grow, or be challenged when in actuality maybe people are people and just go through stages where they are more or less sensitive or whatever. Maybe sometimes it is okay to be mad at someone without having to delve into what previous childhood experiences we need to work though for us to not be grumpy about something. Does anyone feel this way?